MIDWEEK MINUTES MArch 4, 2017

 
 
 

 
Midweek Minutes
March 4, 2017
 
Hello, Winners!
 
Yes, March Madness is here!  What do I mean?  Fat Tuesday? No.  Well, I have some objections to that name because we didn’t celebrate it, right? 
 
Although March came in like a lamb, watch out for the lion part. Monday/Tuesday/Wednesday ???
 
We get spoiled by these few really nice days, don't we?  At school, the prom decorations came, and we're getting invitations delivered...we even have this Friday and next Friday off for "Spring Break." Spring IS COMING!  Will YOU be ready?  (I’m NOT ready for the Daylight Savings time change, though...yuck!)
 
I'm sick of winter, and I bet you are too, but we have to plan for it.  It's not good to let a snowstorm catch us by surprise, but above all, let's just remember that bad weather is NOT an excuse to raid the fridge!!!  Here's a great article for some midweek motivation so you can play your strategy NOW if the weather turns bad...and stick to your plan!

STAY FAT TUESDAY: Be Vague. Create Wiggle Room. Be Wishy-Washy, by Janice Taylor

We have demonstrated that we can - individually and collectively - get fat and stay fat. We are very good at it. One of best our stay fat strategies is to be "vague." We take a wishy-washy, white bread approach to weight loss. We pretend. We toss in an "I'll try" and a "maybe" or two. "I'm going to try and lose weight." "Maybe I'll exercise." "Really, maybe!"
We create enough wiggle room to wiggle our way straight into a plate of fries or a hot fudge chocolate sundae.
We love vague, because there's no commitment in it. We love vague because we are good at it! The less structure, the less planning, the better. The more unaware, the better.
Vague is easy.
We are comfortable with our fuzzy, formless, unspecific way of being. The only glitch in vague is that it keeps you exactly where you are. There's no movement in vague. True enough, you are stuck in vague.
In order to move, to make progress, to manifest your hopes and dreams, action needs to be taken and there's no place for vague in action. In fact, when taking action, you really need to be 'specific.' Yes, specific!
Each and every time you decide that you are going to do something, get specific.

What's your plan, specifically?
How are you going to accomplish what you want, specifically?
It's your choice. Stay stuck in vague. It's easy. And you do it so well. Or get specific and move on!
Great words, huh?  Let's take them to heart.  Have you been wishy-washy too long?  Have you said, "I need to get back and do the program, but..."  So, figure out what it is that is stopping you.  It's all about attitude.  We do have control over our feelings.  So, if it's feelings that keep you from embracing the program this week...DO IT ANYWAY!  One meal at a time...one day at a time!  Oh, and don't forget...spring IS coming!  Hope we all see each other this week! –Zig



Member Milestones
 
Total Loss: –14.8 lbs.
 
5 lb. star
Dena A.
 
 
10 lbs.
Joan P.
 
 


What makes you feel better: compliments or criticism? The answer is obvious, right? So why do we seem to have no problem berating ourselves for how we look? We’d never talk like that to a friend. Maybe we think going negative can spur us to achieve our goals, but the opposite is true: self-compassion can help you stick to healthy actions that pay off at the scale.
So how do you learn to feel better about your body? The same way you make friends with anyone else: Take the time to get acquainted; be supportive and non-judgmental. The activity in the Weekly can help you become more attuned, familiar with, and best of all, appreciative of your physical self. And the ideas below can help you treasure the rest of you!

1. Make a list of your positive qualities—and read it often. It could include anything from being a good guitar player to being a loving dad. List every attribute that makes you a worthwhile, likable individual.

2. Pay yourself a compliment every day. Focus on a different characteristic—quick hands, good fashion sense, killer poker skills—and say out loud: "I love my ___." It may sound silly at first, but it can be a useful counter to self-doubt.

3. Do things you know will help you feel better about yourself. This could be anything from getting a new hairstyle to rearranging your fridge for healthy eating. Tackle the easiest first, to build confidence for future efforts.

4. Give yourself regular
non-food treats. Buy yourself a cool new app, take a spontaneous day trip, pick up a magazine. You'd do things like this to please loved ones, so why not yourself?

5. Spend time with people who care about you. If there aren't as many supportive people in your social circle as you'd like, consider ways of expanding it to increase your chances of positive feedback. Ask yourself: "Who will help me feel good about myself?" (Like, say, your fellow members on
Connect online and on the mobile app.

6. Steer clear of situations that promote self-doubt. Even long-term relationships might call for a clear-eyed reappraisal, if they leave you feeling bad. Perhaps there's a critical relative or colleague who always seems to undermine you. Are you forever seeking someone's approval but never getting it? Rather than simply taking the criticism, you could:
  • Retreat from the relationship a bit.
  • Stop hoping for approval.
  • Respond more assertively to harsh remarks.
7. Try a little kindness. Instead of beating yourself up when you slip, give yourself the benefit of the doubt, same as you would anyone else. Focus on your achievements, not faults. Chances are, once you start looking, you'll be surprised at just how many there are.
 
 
 

 
It’s time for SPRING and a new challenge!  Enjoy the season!  Come to meetings!  Earn an award! 
 
 
 
 
 
 


Isn't it funny that the moment you decide to exercise, something always gets in the way? Mom stops by. That report is suddenly urgent. The dog ate your running shoes. These everyday distractions can get in the way of moving more. Try these easy ways to make fitness an excuse-proof part of your day.
Find fitness that fits your life. If you work irregular hours, don't sign up for classes that start at the same time each week. Instead, choose activities that can be easily slotted into your day: Walk the kids to school or run errands on foot during your lunch hour.
Draw up a weekly timetable. To help you organize your time properly, create a weekly calendar of planned exercise and activities. This will also help you see how much activity you're getting. Try to do something for at least 20 or 30 minutes each day, even if it's just yard work or going on a brisk walk around the neighborhood.
Attach exercise to a treat. Give yourself a non-food reward for scheduling in fitness. Buy flowers once a week for completing all of the workouts you scheduled. You can also attach exercise to an enjoyable event, such as playing with your kids in the park or catching up with a friend on a walk.
Get everyone else on board. Make sure your family and friends know when and where you plan to exercise. This way you shouldn't get any unwelcome interruptions. If you need someone to watch the kids while you exercise, make sure you arrange this well in advance; don't rely on last-minute favors.
Anticipate motivational dips. Everyone struggles with motivation from time to time, preparing for these feelings can go a long way to combating them. For instance, if you sometimes struggle to go to your aerobics class, get a friend to call you to make sure you're not still sitting on the sofa.
Avoid danger zones. Many things can distract even the most hardened of exercisers: your favorite TV show, the lure of a night on the town with friends, or a neighbor popping in for an impromptu chat. Learn to recognize your particular "danger zones" and take steps to negotiate your way around them.
Buy workout clothing you're excited to wear. Shop for well-designed, flattering, and supportive gym clothes; you'll be more motivated to work out.
Have a specially designated drawer for fitness gear. When you're in hurry, the last thing you want is to be hunting around for your yoga pants. Keep all your exercise clothes in a special drawer so you can find them quickly.
Leave your gym bag by the door. Leaving your gym bag by the door serves two purposes: you always know where it is; and it serves as a gentle reminder that an exercise session might be due.
Put your gym clothes straight into the wash. As soon as you get back from the gym or pool, wash your dirty clothes. Nothing is guaranteed to put you off exercising more than having to rummage around in the laundry basket for the least-funky pair of gym socks!
 

 

Caryn, Meetings, Lost 12.6*

*People following the Weight Watchers plan can expect to lose 1-2 pounds per week.
“It is empowering to know that even though I am no longer in my twenties, I can create positive change for myself and take control of my life.”

In Caryn’s words:

I have struggled with my weight for as long as I can remember and have always been self-conscious about it. The first time I joined Weight Watchers, I was 20 years old and had just returned from a semester studying in London, where I ate my way through each country I visited! Heading into my senior year of college, I was determined to lose the weight I had gained since high school. I was able to do so, but as I was driving to work one day, I was in a bad car accident that caused what would become chronic back pain. After college, I became very focused on health and fitness, watching what I ate and working out six days a week. I was in great shape and even felt some relief from my back pain. The manager at my gym asked if I would consider becoming a personal trainer, and I got certified. It felt great to not only take care of myself, but to help others achieve their goals as well. 

Taking back control

While I have managed to keep most of the weight off since my twenties, it has been a real struggle finding the motivation to exercise. Married for more than 15 years, with two young children and a demanding full time job, I find there is always someone or something else taking my time and focus away from caring for myself. As the years marched on, the realization set in that my 40-something body does not respond the same way that my 20-something body once did. In addition, my chronic back pain was getting worse, making it harder for me to kick start an exercise routine. All of my clothes were tight and I had become thick around the middle, having developed a true “muffin top.” I was feeling less and less like myself and knew I needed to find my way back. I had a choice: continue to overeat, feel sorry for myself and allow my health to deteriorate, or jump into action and do something about it. Nearly 25 years after that car accident, I returned to Weight Watchers in August 2015 and took control of my life once again.


 

Making “me” a priority

At my first Meeting, my Leader said the words I needed to hear: “You are the Reason.” As the weight fell off each week, my confidence soared. There will always be an excuse. There will always be something else — anything else! — that I could do instead of taking care of myself, but if I don’t make me a priority, then I’m no use to anyone else. Since losing the weight and reaching my goal, I said goodbye to the rolls around my middle and now happily wear my “skinny” clothes. Most importantly, losing the weight has taken a lot of pressure off of my back and I am able to move better each day. 

Keeping it going

When I eat well and exercise regularly, I feel good. When I don’t, the pounds return — along with the back pain. Walking on a treadmill, taking a weekly yoga class with my daughter, incorporating training with light weights, and following a routine to strengthen my core have really helped me maintain my weight loss and achieve my long-term goal of a healthy lifestyle. 

Inspiring others

My family is very proud of what I have accomplished. It feels great to be a positive role model for my children so they grow up understanding how to make healthy choices. Friends and colleagues have taken notice, too. I am thrilled to be the motivation for a few of them to re-join Weight Watchers; it has been rewarding to hear their weekly success stories. I hope to continue to inspire other busy moms to do the same!

Choosing to be healthy

I am so proud of myself for once again reaching my goal, and in my mid-forties, the success feels that much better. I may always struggle with my weight to some degree, but realizing that “I am the Reason” is reason enough, and I choose to be healthy. Anything is possible if you believe it is!
Have you found success on Weight Watchers? Has a family or a friend inspired you to join the Program? If so, we want to hear from you! E-mail your story, location, and photos to wwmsuccess@weightwatchers.com.
 

NEW PRODUCTS FOR MARCH!!!!!
YOU GOTTA SEE THE COOL, NEW STUFF!!!
 
Apple Chai Breakfast Squares
 
It’s made with real apples, sunflower seeds, & rolled oats and best of all-- this bar does not contain nuts! 
 
 
 
 
My Little Black Journal
 
Personalize it!!!
 
 
 
Our very ownVegetable Spiralizer
It’s  the perfect way to turn a 0-SmartPoints value vegetable into a delicious pasta alternative.
 
 
 
 
0 SmartPoints per serving--a true game-changer to make a recipe like this!
 
 

 
25 Ways to Shake Up Your Routine
Article By: Stephanie Osfield
 
 
Today is as good a day as any for finding your enthusiasm within. Why put your inner excitement on hold any longer? Use our tips to help get started.
 
 
Today could be the best day of your life. Really. You don't have to win the lottery or get a promotion, all you need to do is give your attitude a spring-clean — even if spring is still a couple of months away.
"Attitude is everything," says Tina Tessina, a Long Beach, CA psychotherapist and author of The Ten Smartest Decisions a Woman Can Make After Forty (Renaissance, 2001). "That's why it's so important to fill your life with goals and activities that you enjoy, as they will help lift your spirit."
Here are some ways to tap into your enthusiastic alter-ego.
 
Freshen up your routine"The biggest problem with sticking to a routine is that you risk getting caught in a rut — this causes boredom to take over your entire life," says Tessina. Instead, blow off some of your daily habits and bring a sense of freshness to each day. Try these suggestions:
 
Wear bright red today
Eat breakfast in your backyard (weather permitting)
Try cooking a new cuisine, such as Vietnamese, Spanish or Cajun
Call your partner just to say "I love you."
Splurge on flowers for the office or dining room
Pose for a portrait by a professional photographer
Go window shopping with a friend
House swap with friends for a change of scene
Wear a bold new lipstick color
Dance in the moonlight on a balcony or in your garden
Push two armchairs together and give your partner a foot massage while he or she reciprocates
 
Think young and playful"I always suggest going back to childhood, and remembering what you liked then," suggests Tessina. "Sports? Hiking? Bicycling or roller skating? Swinging on the swings? Dancing around to music? There are adult versions of all these activities. When you're doing them, notice the sights, sounds and the way your body feels, so you enjoy the moment." Try these ideas:
 
Choose three simple activities you liked as a child (such as watching the clouds, riding a roller coaster or making mud pies). Indulge in them all in one weekend
Buy rain boots and jump in puddles after it rains
Leave funny notes for your partner in his/her underwear drawer or briefcase
Organize a weekly Pictionary or Trivial Pursuit tournament at work
Invite friends over for takeout and a night of charades
Relive old memories by looking through photo albums
 
Take on new challengesDon't let fear of change, the security of habit or sheer laziness hold you back from living your life to the fullest. Here are some new opportunities:
Take up a hobby with a feel-good factor, such as sailing or drama classe
Volunteer to do charity work
Learn a skill you find appealing but a little daunting, such as upholstering or making jewelry
Make peace with your parents
Start your own walking club
Write that novel or screenplay
Go to a travel agent and organize the trek across the Himalayas or trip to Paris you've always wanted to take
Look for a job you don't dread going to every morning
 

Check out ALL of the specials this week in the meeting room!

 
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